Working with high conflict couples requires a unique approach that prioritizes safety and respect, with clear behavioral boundaries, de-escalation strategies, and anger management techniques. This lecture provides the tools and information needed to help these couples reduce conflict and connect on the pain that underlies this dynamic, leading to increased understanding, empathy, and intimacy. In cases of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV), couples therapy is contraindicated. The differences between high conflict couples and IPV will be explored to allow for proper assessment in your clinical practice.